When [the king] is established on his royal throne, he is to write for himself on a scroll a copy of this Torah … It is to be with him, and he is to read it all the days of his life so that he may learn to be in awe of the Lord his God and follow carefully all the words of this law and these decrees and not feel superior to his brethren or turn from the law to the right or to the left. Then he and his descendants will reign a long time in the midst of Israel. (Deut. 17:18-20)
In these verses, the queen of all virtues is highlighted: ‘[he] shall not feel superior to his brethren’.
Many people have misconceptions about humility. To be humble is not about beating yourself up or letting other people put you down. It is not low self-esteem, nor is it the opposite of confidence. In fact, only the truly humble person thinks and acts with confidence because he understands his utter dependence on the goodness of God.
Humility is not just a virtue; it is the root of all other virtues. A lack of humility is at the root of every character defect and failure for it is the ego [pride] that causes us to choose our own way and our own opinion over God’s.
In this regard, we do well to remember Isaiah’s warning: ‘My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts, says the LORD. And My ways are far beyond anything you could imagine. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so My ways are higher than your ways and My thoughts, higher than your thoughts.’ Isaiah 55:8-9
The seemingly insignificant events of daily life are the tests of our humility. It is in the simple things of every day that our humility – or the lack thereof – is demonstrated. You see, it is not enough to assume a humble countenance before God in times of prayer. Humility before God is proven in our interactions with our fellowman. This is why the king of Israel is commanded to keep God’s Word with him at all times and to meditate on it continually.
The ‘Me’ in all of us is a tyrannical, demanding person. It will always want the highest place amidst others and feel indignant or ‘wounded’ if another is preferred over ourselves. Nothing dies harder than our tendency to think more highly of ourselves than we ought. By contrast, the humble person is easily able to rejoice when others are honored and generous in giving praise where praise is rightly due. He is not jealous nor is he threatened by the achievements and success of another.
Humility is essential to faith. For what is biblical faith? The utter confidence that there is a God in the heavens who loves and cares for us and has created us with a purpose and a destiny. Faith is quiet but immovable confidence in His covenant and His goodness. By its very nature, faith demands humility.
Strong intellectual convictions without humility in the heart lead to arrogance and attitudes of superiority. Did not the prophet Micah remind us: O people, the LORD has told you what is good, and what He requires of you. To do justice, to love righteousness and to walk humbly with your God? Micah 6:8
If a king or leader, whom all are taught to honor and respect, is commanded to be humble – “not feel superior to his brethren” – how much more so the rest of us. Moses, the great leader of the Jewish people, was “very humble, more so than anyone on the face of the earth” Num. 12: 3?
We have just entered the Hebrew month of Elul; thirty days of preparation for the great Festival of Trumpets which this year begins at sundown on October 3rd. Elul is the month of repentance, of pausing to take an internal inventory. How have we progressed spiritually in the past year? In great measure, the answer to that question is founded on how we have grown in humility – or not. For it is out of the humble heart that spirituality flourishes.
In Tune with Torah this week = as we search our hearts in preparation for Yom Teruah, the Festival of the Blowing of the Shofar, also called Rosh Hashana, the issue is not so much to analyze each outward deed but to get to the heart of the matter – is the root of my personal behavior self-focused or God-focused? Self-serving or God-serving? Prideful or humble?